REDUCE. REUSE. RECYCLE.

Many people are “going green” now of days, but I’m not referring to helping save the environment when I say “Reduce. Reuse. Recycle.” I often use that phrase when referring to men. I have been single for almost 3 years now. Yes, I’ve gone on lots of dates over the past 3 years and by no means need to be in a relationship, but I’m not going to lie: I get lonely. I have great friends and a wonderful family, but sometimes there’s nothing better than a good hang out with a male companion. And no, I’m not referring to a booty call. Sometimes all it takes is a conversation through texts, going out for a few beers, or watching a movie to make me feel better.

And where do I find these male companions to keep me company?

Simply pull out your phone! I’m pretty sure we all have a friend of the opposite sex that things didn’t work out with on a romantic level, but nothing bad ever caused both parties to stop talking. I know I have a few of these types of people in my phone. Some are from my college years and others I have met since I graduated college.

One thing I have learned over the past couple years is you need to be careful about who you choose to be one of these people. Do NOT pick someone who things didn’t work out with, but you still have feelings for, but know nothing is ever going to happen! You are just setting yourself up for disappointment and heart ache. Trust me. And if you’re thinking otherwise, delete him/her from your phone now!

So it’s your turn to tell me about some of your “Reduce. Reuse. Recycle.” person(s) of choice!